How do we build confidence in our children? There will always be someone better, faster, or smarter then they are. It is okay to allow them the opportunity for challenges and competitions, but reward should be intrinsic. Challenge them to press on toward their own goals. Help them to focus on why they should improve and to improve to please God not others.
Psalm 46:1-2
"God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea," This verse tells us that when we are having trouble, God can be our confidence.
Remind them that God sees them through His eyes with love and not through the eyes of man. He loves them the way He created them. He has uniquely gifted them to set out and be part of His plan.
Remind your child as they experience each new challenge or fear, that God is right by their side to fill in where they lack and to guide and protect them. "If God is for me who can be against me."
Develop a habit of asking your child open-ended questions (ones they can't be answered with "Yes" or "No"). They will learn to share their feelings about fears and concerns they have. This gives you an opportunity to help them learn that their confidence is in the Lord.
Psalm 118:8
It is better to trust in the LORD,Than to put confidence in man.
Bless you all as you guide your children through this day.
Brenda
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