Who is in control of your child?

How much of your behavior today will be controlled by others?

How reactionary are our children throughout the day? Talk with them (and yourself)about how much we let the actions of others control our emotions and responses.

Romans 12:17-21

Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay,"says the Lord. On the contrary:
"If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.
Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

How hard it is sometimes to play this out in every day life. Talk with your child about who causes them problems. Talk about what happens and give them strategies to live out these verses. However, remember that children are literal creatures. Be careful that they understand that they are not to remain in situations that can harm them. Peace is not an excuse to allow bad behavior to go unchecked.

This is a challenging lesson for children. (and adults sometimes) Keep the communication flowing daily. Don't let "Fine" be every day's answer to "How was your day?". The more they talk the more you can disciple them to become spiritual champions.

Blessings throughout your day.
Brenda