When we are truly content we are at peace. For those who have found contentment in God, this peace is sweet. We rest in knowing that God has all things well in hand. We enjoy not having to have all the answers. But what about our children? How do they feel? What is their perception of this truth? We so very much want to inject them with truth. Wouldn't it be nice if their was a Bible IV? We could just hook them up each day and have the Holy Spirit flowing through their veins all day. Alas, it isn't that simple. However, the journey, or dare I say, the struggle is part of the learning process. It is what makes those AHA moments so dear. The following is just a few suggestions on how to continue to train your children to find contentment some from me and some from "Raising Spiritual Champions Newsletter".
"I trust in you , O Lord; I say 'You are my God. My life is in your hands. Psalm 31:14-15a
Read these verses with your child. Talk about the attitude the writer has about his life. What makes the writer comfortable with his situation? Ask how comfortable your child feels about their life? Let this conversation open up to a wonderful teachable moment.
Kids who are comfortable with themselves know they are loved and wanted. Help them develop a sense of contentment in natural ways.
Appreciate your kids for who they are and what they do. Tell them you like them. Keep a journal of the positive things they do, their qualities and strengths. Write down the positive comments their teachers and others say about them. Read through the book occasionally to help your kids see themselves from various perspectives.
Repeat important sayings and verses that build confidence and courage. Believe me, your words to them will pop up in their heads when a choice needs to be made and you're not around. My children have told me many times that when they needed to make a decision, they could hear my advise in their head. They didn't always do what they should have, but when things fell apart it only solidified the wisdom that they should have followed.
Send your kids off each day with a prayer or blessing. Let them know they can handle whatever comes. Your confidence in them can carry them through when they aren't feeling so sure of themselves.Help them develop the habit of complimenting others on what they are good at too.
Bless you all. Fight the good fight.
Brenda
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